July 13th, 2011

Misc: I am ME

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Randomly, I will never understand this idea that women only want a deep emotional connection with cuddles and men prefer sex. It has been my experience that this varies wildly from person to person. While some women do enjoy cuddling and would definitely prefer that to getting down and dirty, there are those who prefer it the other way 'round. Same for men. For me, it goes back to how we condition our children at a young age to fit a specific gender role, regardless of how they feel about it.

IF YOU LIKE TO CUDDLE/SNUGGLE/HOLD/BE HELD BY YOUR PARTNER, IT DOES NOT FOLLOW THAT YOU ARE AUTOMATICALLY A WOMAN OR 'WOMAN-LIKE'

IF YOU LIKE SEX, A LOT, AND WOULD RATHER DO THAT THAN SIT AND SNUGGLE, IT DOES NOT NECESSARILY FOLLOW THAT YOU ARE A MAN OR ARE 'THINKING WITH YOUR PENIS'

It simply means that you are human. Congratulations.